{"id":40047,"date":"2023-11-11T01:04:45","date_gmt":"2023-11-11T00:04:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/?p=40047"},"modified":"2023-11-10T19:12:44","modified_gmt":"2023-11-10T18:12:44","slug":"daniela-kovarova-proc-chce-stat-zrusit-rodinu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/2023\/11\/11\/daniela-kovarova-proc-chce-stat-zrusit-rodinu\/","title":{"rendered":"Daniela Kov\u00e1\u0159ov\u00e1: Pro\u010d chce st\u00e1t zru\u0161it rodinu?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u010cesk\u00fd st\u00e1t p\u00e1ch\u00e1 atent\u00e1t na rodinu. Nev\u011b\u0159\u00edte?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201eZru\u0161te rodinu!\u201c po\u017eaduje kniha britsko-n\u011bmeck\u00e9 radik\u00e1ln\u00ed feministky Sofie Lewis. Kdyby \u0161lo o\u00a0jedin\u00fd v\u00fdk\u0159ik v\u00a0jinak norm\u00e1ln\u00ed ve\u0159ejn\u00e9 debat\u011b, asi by se nad t\u00edmto nesmyslem[1]<\/a>\u00a0dalo m\u00e1vnout rukou. Hor\u0161\u00ed v\u0161ak je, \u017ee\u00a0vyd\u00e1n\u00ed knihy, kter\u00e1 po\u017eaduje vymaz\u00e1n\u00ed rodiny z\u00a0evropsk\u00e9ho prostoru, z\u00e1sadn\u011b finan\u010dn\u011b podpo\u0159ilo \u010desk\u00e9 Ministerstvo kultury<\/strong>[2]<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Jako pr\u00e1vn\u00edkovi se mi mihne hlavou ot\u00e1zka, pro\u010d na\u0161e ministerstvo za pen\u00edze \u010desk\u00fdch da\u0148ov\u00fdch poplatn\u00edk\u016f (a\u00a0spokojen\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edk\u016f \u010desk\u00fdch rodin) dotuje protist\u00e1tn\u00ed po\u017eadavek. A\u00a0kdyby jen ministerstvo zlehka na knihu p\u0159isp\u011blo, ale to ne \u2013\u00a0\u010d\u00e1stka 160.000 korun je tak obrovit\u00e1, \u017ee pokryje n\u00e1klady na vyd\u00e1n\u00ed alespo\u0148 dvou kvalitn\u00edch knih<\/strong>, co\u017e jako spisovatelka moc dob\u0159e v\u00edm. Tak\u017ee znovu a\u00a0jasn\u011bji: Ministerstvo kultury si za pen\u00edze da\u0148ov\u00fdch poplatn\u00edk\u016f koupilo protist\u00e1tn\u00ed pamflet \u00fato\u010d\u00edc\u00ed na z\u00e1klady \u010desk\u00e9ho st\u00e1tu. Pod\u00edvejme se na to podrobn\u011bji.<\/p>\n

Rodina, man\u017eelstv\u00ed a\u00a0d\u011bti jsou institucemi chr\u00e1n\u011bn\u00fdmi \u010desk\u00fdm platn\u00fdm pr\u00e1vem. Listina z\u00e1kladn\u00edch pr\u00e1v a\u00a0svobod[3]<\/a>\u00a0(\u00fastavn\u00ed to z\u00e1kon!) v\u00a0prvn\u00edm odstavci \u010dl\u00e1nku 32 uv\u00e1d\u00ed, \u017ee\u00a0\u201erodi\u010dovstv\u00ed a\u00a0rodina jsou pod ochranou z\u00e1kona\u201c<\/em>. Podobn\u011b hovo\u0159\u00ed i\u00a0mezin\u00e1rodn\u00ed \u00famluvy, jich\u017e je \u010desk\u00e1 republika signat\u00e1\u0159em, a\u00a0tedy je ka\u017ed\u00fdm jej\u00edm slovem v\u00e1z\u00e1na. Tak t\u0159eba \u00damluva o\u00a0pr\u00e1vech d\u00edt\u011bte[4]<\/a>\u00a0ve sv\u00e9 preambuli konstatuje, \u017ee v\u00a0\u201ez\u00e1jmu pln\u00e9ho a\u00a0harmonick\u00e9ho rozvoje osobnosti mus\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b vyr\u016fstat v\u00a0rodinn\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed\u201c<\/em>\u00a0a\u00a0\u017ee\u00a0\u201erodina, jako z\u00e1kladn\u00ed jednotka spole\u010dnosti a\u00a0p\u0159irozen\u00e9 prost\u0159ed\u00ed pro r\u016fst a\u00a0blaho v\u0161ech sv\u00fdch \u010dlen\u016f a\u00a0zejm\u00e9na d\u011bt\u00ed, mus\u00ed m\u00edt n\u00e1rok na pot\u0159ebnou ochranu a\u00a0takovou pomoc, aby mohla beze zbytku plnit svou \u00falohu ve spole\u010dnosti\u201c<\/em>. Spojen\u00ed rozd\u011blen\u00fdch rodin je p\u0159edm\u011btem mnoha mezin\u00e1rodn\u00edch i\u00a0vnitrost\u00e1tn\u00edch pr\u00e1vn\u00edch z\u00e1vazk\u016f. Je\u0161t\u011b podrobn\u011bji povinnost chr\u00e1nit rodinu rozv\u00e1d\u00ed \u010desk\u00e9 platn\u00e9 pr\u00e1vo. Ob\u010dansk\u00fd z\u00e1kon\u00edk[5]<\/a>\u00a0v\u00a0\u00a7 3 odst. 2 p\u00edsm. a) uv\u00e1d\u00ed, \u017ee\u00a0\u201erodina, rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed a\u00a0man\u017eelstv\u00ed po\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed z\u00e1konn\u00e9 ochrany\u201c<\/em>. Pokud jak\u00fdkoliv st\u00e1tn\u00ed org\u00e1n \u010di\u00a0libovoln\u00e1 st\u00e1tn\u00ed instituce rodinu a\u00a0man\u017eelstv\u00ed torp\u00e9duje, jedn\u00e1 protipr\u00e1vn\u011b a\u00a0m\u011bl by s\u00a0t\u00edm okam\u017eit\u011b p\u0159estat. Anebo pro nekulturn\u00ed ministerstvo neplat\u00ed, \u017ee st\u00e1tn\u00ed instituce m\u016f\u017ee \u010dinit jen to, co je j\u00ed z\u00e1konem v\u00fdslovn\u011b dovoleno? To u\u017e milovn\u00edci dotac\u00ed a\u00a0rozli\u010dn\u00fdch z\u00e1padn\u00edch zh\u016fv\u011b\u0159ilost\u00ed zapomn\u011bli na \u00dastavu \u010cesk\u00e9 republiky?<\/p>\n

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Co sv\u011bt sv\u011btem stoj\u00ed, objevuj\u00ed se \u0161\u00edlenci a\u00a0zast\u00e1nci r\u016fzn\u00fdch spikleneck\u00fdch teori\u00ed, klimati\u010dt\u00ed alarmist\u00e9 a\u00a0podporovatel\u00e9 polyamori\u00ed, lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed bojuj\u00ed za Zemi bez lid\u00ed \u010di\u00a0podn\u011bcuj\u00ed p\u00e1ch\u00e1n\u00ed hromadn\u00fdch sebevra\u017ed, zn\u00e1me rozli\u010dn\u00e9 sekty a\u00a0sebevra\u017eedn\u00e9 ni\u010ditele v\u0161eho vyzkou\u0161en\u00e9ho, tradi\u010dn\u00edho a\u00a0osv\u011bd\u010den\u00e9ho. Ale \u017ee si bude takov\u00e9 ni\u010ditele st\u00e1tu a\u00a0spole\u010dnosti platit s\u00e1m st\u00e1t, to je asi \u010deskou novinkou. A\u00a0tak je t\u0159eba st\u00e1le dokola opakovat pro na\u0161e mlad\u00e9, neznal\u00e9, neinformovan\u00e9, pom\u00fdlen\u00e9, nev\u011bdom\u00e9 a\u00a0nev\u011bdouc\u00ed, radikalizovan\u00e9 \u010di\u00a0nev\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed ty d\u00e1vn\u00e9 pravdy:\u00a0rodina je z\u00e1kladem spole\u010dnosti<\/strong>,\u00a0rodina je z\u00e1kladem st\u00e1tu<\/strong>. D\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 od narozen\u00ed nen\u00ed s\u00a0matkou, za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 ran\u00e9 trauma, proto dobr\u00e9 spole\u010dnosti podporuj\u00ed setrv\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte u\u00a0matky po\u00a0porodu a\u00a0v\u00a0prvn\u00edch m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch jeho \u017eivota. Nejlep\u0161\u00edm z\u00e1zem\u00edm pro d\u00edt\u011b je p\u00e9\u010de miluj\u00edc\u00edch rodi\u010d\u016f, kterou potomek nutn\u011b pot\u0159ebuje nejm\u00e9n\u011b do osmi let sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Rodi\u010dovskou p\u00e9\u010di dopl\u0148uje \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed rodina, je\u017e d\u00edt\u011bti dod\u00e1 zku\u0161enosti, hodnoty, z\u00e1\u017eitky a\u00a0podporu do doby dosp\u011blosti a\u00a0osamostatn\u011bn\u00ed. Dosp\u011bl\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk zakl\u00e1d\u00e1 novou rodinu nejen proto, aby s\u00a0n\u00edm lidsk\u00fd rod pokra\u010doval, ale i\u00a0proto, aby se m\u011bl kam vracet po\u00a0pr\u00e1ci a\u00a0rozbolav\u011bn ze v\u0161ech boj\u016f, starost\u00ed a\u00a0\u00fatok\u016f vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho sv\u011bta. Rodina a\u00a0domov je \u00fato\u010di\u0161t\u011bm, kde si l\u00ed\u017ee r\u00e1ny. Rodina je jeho nemocnic\u00ed a\u00a0\u010derpac\u00ed stanic\u00ed pro dob\u00edjen\u00ed v\u0161ech druh\u016f fyzick\u00fdch i\u00a0psychick\u00fdch sil. \u010clenov\u00e9 dobr\u00fdch rodin jsou zdrav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, \u017eij\u00ed d\u00e9le, vz\u00e1jemn\u011b si vypom\u00e1haj\u00ed v\u00a0kriz\u00edch a\u00a0nepot\u0159ebuj\u00ed tak \u010dasto pomoc zven\u010d\u00ed. Dobr\u00e9 rodiny se st\u00e1tu ve v\u0161ech sm\u011brech vyplat\u00ed. D\u011bti z\u00a0dobr\u00fdch rodin se l\u00e9pe u\u010d\u00ed, m\u00e9n\u011b ve \u0161kol\u00e1ch absentuj\u00ed, maj\u00ed v\u00edce p\u0159\u00e1tel, dos\u00e1hnou na vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u00e9n\u011b zneu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed drogy, m\u00e9n\u011b p\u00e1chaj\u00ed trestnou \u010dinnost, m\u00e9n\u011b \u010derpaj\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00ed d\u00e1vky. Spokojen\u00ed p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edci dobr\u00fdch rodin pod\u00e1vaj\u00ed lep\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdkon v\u00a0pr\u00e1ci, plat\u00ed vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed dan\u011b a\u00a0spole\u010dn\u011b l\u00e9pe odol\u00e1vaj\u00ed kriz\u00edm, kter\u00e9 na spole\u010dnost pravideln\u011b dopadaj\u00ed. Tak t\u0159eba ta ned\u00e1vn\u00e1 covidov\u00e1[6]<\/a>\u00a0jasn\u011b odhalila rodinn\u00e9 klady a\u00a0bolesti. Dobr\u00e9 rodiny se stmelily a\u00a0vydr\u017eely, podobn\u011b jako jejich \u010dl\u00e1nky. Ty \u0161patn\u00e9 se rozpadly a\u00a0jejich patologie se zv\u00fdraznily. N\u00e1r\u016fst psychofarmak, zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed, z\u00e1\u0161kol\u00e1ctv\u00ed, neur\u00f3z, nemocnosti a\u00a0sebevra\u017eednosti je toho smutn\u00fdm d\u016fkazem.<\/p>\n

V\u011bt\u0161ina rodin sv\u00e9 \u00fakoly pln\u00ed a\u00a0moudr\u00e1 spole\u010dnost rodiny alespo\u0148 mor\u00e1ln\u011b podporuje a\u00a0p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 je nereguluje, nekritizuje, nezasahuje do jejich vnit\u0159n\u00edch vztah\u016f, nekontroluje je a\u00a0nebuzeruje. Chytr\u00fd st\u00e1t dobr\u00e9 rodiny v\u0161emo\u017en\u011b chr\u00e1n\u00ed a\u00a0jejich \u010dleny u\u010d\u00ed spory utlumovat, a\u00a0ne je vytv\u00e1\u0159et.<\/p>\n

Jen hloup\u00fd st\u00e1t rodiny ni\u010d\u00ed a\u00a0rozvrac\u00ed. Jen naivn\u00ed sn\u00edlek\u00a0[7]<\/a>\u00a0si m\u016f\u017ee myslet, \u017ee st\u00e1t je schopen nahradit mat\u010dinu p\u00e9\u010de, otcovu inspiraci, babi\u010d\u010diny buchty, d\u011bde\u010dkovo vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed. Star\u0161\u00ed generace si pamatuje jesle, v\u00a0zahrani\u010d\u00ed se kibucy uk\u00e1zaly jako slep\u00e1 cesta. Skute\u010dnost, \u017ee \u010desk\u00e9 \u017eeny mohou z\u016fstat se sv\u00fdmi potomky doma mnoho m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f, n\u00e1m z\u00e1vid\u00ed v\u0161ichni zahrani\u010dn\u00ed odborn\u00edci.<\/p>\n

Jen omezen\u00fd st\u00e1t si vym\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed pseudoprobl\u00e9my\u00a0[8]<\/a>\u00a0a\u00a0zveli\u010duje okrajov\u00e9 jevy, kter\u00e9 normou nejsou. Kdo zni\u010d\u00ed rodinu, chce kolem sebe m\u00edt ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 samot\u00e1\u0159e, kte\u0159\u00ed se nemaj\u00ed kam vracet a\u00a0o\u00a0kter\u00e9 se ve st\u00e1\u0159\u00ed nem\u00e1 kdo postarat. Pro\u010d jen je \u010desk\u00fd st\u00e1t tak zlo\u010dinn\u011b hloup\u00fd a\u00a0omezen\u00fd? Pro\u010d chce to funguj\u00edc\u00ed ni\u010dit, m\u00edsto aby dobr\u00e9 vztahy budoval, chr\u00e1nil a\u00a0podporoval?<\/p>\n

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Autorka\u00a0Daniela Kov\u00e1\u0159ov\u00e1<\/strong>\u00a0je nez\u00e1vislou sen\u00e1torkou<\/em><\/p>\n

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