{"id":33726,"date":"2023-08-08T08:48:09","date_gmt":"2023-08-08T06:48:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/?p=33726"},"modified":"2023-08-08T08:48:09","modified_gmt":"2023-08-08T06:48:09","slug":"kat-rosenfield-sex-koucink-zabiji-intimitu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/2023\/08\/08\/kat-rosenfield-sex-koucink-zabiji-intimitu\/","title":{"rendered":"Kat Rosenfield: Sex kou\u010dink zab\u00edj\u00ed intimitu"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"fb-root\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"left-col\">\n<article id=\"clanek\">\n<section class=\"perex\"><strong>Ve filmu Demolition Man je sc\u00e9na, ve kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed dv\u011b postavy sex \u2013 nebo sp\u00ed\u0161e to, co se za sex ve futuristick\u00e9 utopii, kde se film odehr\u00e1v\u00e1, pova\u017euje. Samotn\u00fd akt byl nahrazen jeho kybernetickou napodobeninou: sex se nyn\u00ed odehr\u00e1v\u00e1 pln\u011b oble\u010den, z opa\u010dn\u00fdch stran m\u00edstnosti a s ob\u0159\u00edmi helmami virtu\u00e1ln\u00ed reality, kter\u00e9 prov\u00e1d\u011bj\u00ed \u201edigitalizovan\u00fd p\u0159enos sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed energie\u201c. V tu chv\u00edli si jedna z postav, n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvn\u00edk cestuj\u00edc\u00ed \u010dasem z neosv\u00edcen\u00e9 minulosti, kter\u00e9ho hraje Sylvester Stallone, sund\u00e1 helmu a j\u00edzliv\u011b navrhne, aby se to d\u011blalo postaru.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Jeho partnerka (Sandra Bullockov\u00e1) odm\u00edtne: \u201eFuj! Nechutn\u00e9! Mysl\u00ed\u0161&#8230;\u201c \u2013 sotva to vyslov\u00ed bez d\u00e1ven\u00ed \u2013 \u201e&#8230;p\u0159enos tekutin?\u201c.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<section class=\"clanek-obsah\">Tato sc\u00e9na nen\u00ed pro film \u00fapln\u011b kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00e1, ale s odstupem \u010dasu se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt v\u00fdznamn\u00e1. \u201eBezuzdn\u00e1 v\u00fdm\u011bna t\u011blesn\u00fdch tekutin byla jedn\u00edm z hlavn\u00edch d\u016fvod\u016f \u00fapadku spole\u010dnosti,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Sandra Bullockov\u00e1 a vysv\u011btluje, \u017ee tato praktika \u2013 kter\u00e1 zahrnuje nejen sex, ale i l\u00edb\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 byla ve jm\u00e9nu bezpe\u010dnosti zak\u00e1z\u00e1na. V na\u0161\u00ed budoucnosti byl lidsk\u00fd dotek pova\u017eov\u00e1n za luxus, kter\u00fd si \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 osv\u00edcen\u00e1 spole\u010dnost nem\u016f\u017ee dovolit.<\/p>\n<p>Na\u0161e vlastn\u00ed pokusy o soci\u00e1ln\u00ed in\u017een\u00fdrstv\u00ed samoz\u0159ejm\u011b nedosp\u011bly tak daleko, abychom zak\u00e1zali fyzick\u00fd kontakt, a\u010dkoli vrchol pandemie Covidu n\u00e1s k tomu p\u0159ivedl pozoruhodn\u011b a n\u011bkdy a\u017e sm\u011b\u0161n\u011b bl\u00edzko. Vzpom\u00edn\u00e1te, jak kanadsk\u00e9 Centrum pro kontrolu nemoc\u00ed doporu\u010dovalo p\u00e1r\u016fm, aby se\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/globalnews.ca\/news\/7204384\/coronavirus-glory-holes-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"external noopener\">p\u0159i sexu vz\u00e1jemn\u011b ned\u00fdchaly na sebe<\/a>? A p\u0159esto je tento instinkt k bezpe\u010d\u00ed jedn\u00edm z t\u011bch, kter\u00fdm lid\u00e9 v\u017edycky podl\u00e9hali \u2013 a kter\u00fd je dnes patrn\u00fd v na\u0161ich neust\u00e1l\u00fdch pokusech zefektivnit, organizovat, automatizovat a u\u010dinit bezprobl\u00e9mov\u00fdmi v\u0161echny \u010d\u00e1sti \u017eivota, kter\u00e9 byly d\u0159\u00edve\u00a0<i>chaotick\u00e9<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>Vakuum, kter\u00e9 vzniklo po \u00fapadku starom\u00f3dn\u00edho seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a navazov\u00e1n\u00ed vztah\u016f, kdy se \u010dlov\u011bk s n\u011bk\u00fdm osobn\u011b setkal a pro\u017eil vzru\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed chemick\u00fd proces zn\u00e1m\u00fd jako \u201enav\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed vztahu\u201c, bylo vypln\u011bno zna\u010dn\u00fdm mno\u017estv\u00edm vysloven\u011b asoci\u00e1ln\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, proto\u017ee lid\u00e9 se vyh\u00fdbaj\u00ed mo\u017enosti nav\u00e1zat vztah bez prost\u0159edn\u00edka v podob\u011b obrazovky, nebo se j\u00ed dokonce boj\u00ed. V\u00e1ben\u00ed online sv\u011bta a jeho zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00edho syst\u00e9mu odm\u011bn mezit\u00edm zm\u011bnilo etiketu t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00ed se romantick\u00fdch vztah\u016f, zejm\u00e9na pokud jde o laskavost (a vkusnost) v\u016f\u010di odm\u00edtnut\u00ed. Nap\u0159\u00edklad\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.gq-magazine.co.uk\/article\/youve-been-doxed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"external noopener\">se ne\u0161t\u00edt\u00ed ve\u0159ejn\u011b sd\u00edlet a zesm\u011b\u0161\u0148ovat trapn\u00e9 zpr\u00e1vy<\/a>, kter\u00e9 mu\u017ei pos\u00edlaj\u00ed nad\u011bjn\u00fdm prot\u011bj\u0161k\u016fm na seznamovac\u00edch aplikac\u00edch.<\/p>\n<p>\u010c\u00edm v\u00edc se sv\u011b\u0159ujeme aplikac\u00edm a algoritm\u016fm, \u010d\u00edm v\u00edc swipujeme a \u0165uk\u00e1me do kl\u00e1vecnice, t\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b se skute\u010dn\u011b dot\u00fdk\u00e1me n\u011b\u010deho jin\u00e9ho, v\u010detn\u011b jeden druh\u00e9ho. M\u00edsto spojen\u00ed m\u00e1me st\u00e1le \u010dast\u011bji k dispozici\u00a0<i>slu\u017eby<\/i>, kter\u00e9 nab\u00edzej\u00ed bezpe\u010dnou, kontrolovanou napodobeninu toho skute\u010dn\u00e9ho. Mnoh\u00e9 z nich jsou tak\u00e9 online: existuj\u00ed camgirls, kter\u00e9 vystupuj\u00ed pro bezejmenn\u00fd dav pozorovatel\u016f a v\u0161ichni sout\u011b\u017e\u00ed o jejich pozornost prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm dar\u016f. Existuj\u00ed \u00fa\u010dinkuj\u00edc\u00ed OnlyFans, kte\u0159\u00ed nab\u00edzej\u00ed iluzi intimn\u00edho online spojen\u00ed v\u00fdm\u011bnou za pen\u00edze. Existuj\u00ed virtu\u00e1ln\u00ed chatboti, kte\u0159\u00ed budou hr\u00e1t roli va\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b a pov\u00eddat si s v\u00e1mi cel\u00e9 hodiny; n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed z nich jsou dokonce\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/tech\/ai-powered-virtual-girlfriend-caryn-marjorie-snapchat-influencer-rcna84180\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"external noopener\">klony skute\u010dn\u00fdch lid\u00ed<\/a>\u00a0s um\u011blou inteligenc\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Nejzaj\u00edmav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a nejkontroverzn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed jsou v\u0161ak slu\u017eby, kter\u00e9 simuluj\u00ed intimitu tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 a k\u016f\u017ei na k\u016f\u017ei. D\u0159\u00edve se \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd tou\u017eil po dotyku jin\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 bytosti, spokojil s mas\u00e1\u017e\u00ed nebo s t\u00edm, \u017ee mu ciz\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk umyl vlasy \u0161amponem; nyn\u00ed je na vzestupu chalup\u00e1\u0159sk\u00fd pr\u016fmysl\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.newyorker.com\/magazine\/2022\/08\/15\/social-distancing-fatigue-try-a-professional-cuddler\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"external noopener\">profesion\u00e1ln\u00edch mazlivc\u016f<\/a>, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u00e1s obejmou (nebo jen dr\u017e\u00ed za ruku) za zhruba 100 dolar\u016f na hodinu. Jeden z nich, jeho\u017e profil ned\u00e1vno zve\u0159ejnil \u010dasopis New Yorker, m\u00e1 na v\u00fdb\u011br z 80 r\u016fzn\u00fdch poloh a tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee v d\u016fsledku pandemie trp\u00ed zem\u011b epidemi\u00ed \u201ehladu po k\u016f\u017ei\u201c \u2013 i kdy\u017e se vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 ot\u00e1zce, zda lze tento hlad skute\u010dn\u011b ukojit t\u00edmto druhem transak\u010dn\u00ed intimity. Jedin\u00e9, co v\u00ed, je, \u017ee se jeho klienti st\u00e1le vracej\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Profesion\u00e1ln\u00ed mazlen\u00ed je bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 a certifikovan\u00e9, ale tak\u00e9 v\u00fdslovn\u011b nesexu\u00e1ln\u00ed. Pro ty, kte\u0159\u00ed cht\u011bj\u00ed v\u00edc, kte\u0159\u00ed tou\u017e\u00ed po intimit\u011b, ale ne po rizic\u00edch, zranitelnosti nebo pochybnostech o sob\u011b sam\u00fdch, kter\u00e9 p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed vztah, existuje zcela\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-9640711\/Inside-Israeli-clinic-teaches-sex-11-000-clients-injured-veterans-virgins.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"external noopener\">nov\u00e1 kategorie sexu\u00e1ln\u00edch terapeut\u016f<\/a>, kte\u0159\u00ed s v\u00e1mi budou nejen diskutovat o fyzick\u00e9m milostn\u00e9m aktu, ale skute\u010dn\u011b ho budou prov\u00e1d\u011bt \u2013 alespo\u0148 n\u011bkdy, alespo\u0148 na chv\u00edli. Jejich pacienty jsou lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed probl\u00e9my s fyzickou intimitou, t\u0159eba kv\u016fli zdravotn\u00edmu posti\u017een\u00ed, vojensk\u00e9mu zran\u011bn\u00ed nebo zm\u011bn\u011b pohlav\u00ed. \u0158\u00edkaj\u00ed si \u201en\u00e1hradn\u00ed partne\u0159i\u201c.<\/p>\n<p>\u010cl\u00e1nek v\u00a0<i>New York Times<\/i>\u00a0o t\u00e9to praxi s bolest\u00ed vysv\u011btluje, \u017ee nejsou prostitutky, ale ani pouh\u00e9 terapeutky. To, co nab\u00edzej\u00ed, je n\u011bco jako psychologie s p\u0159\u00edm\u011bs\u00ed sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed pr\u00e1ce, s prvky sebezdokonalov\u00e1n\u00ed a budov\u00e1n\u00ed dovednost\u00ed. Mn\u011b p\u0159ipadaj\u00ed jako jak\u00fdsi sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed sensei, obdoba \u0161erm\u00ed\u0159sk\u00e9ho tren\u00e9ra, kter\u00fd mus\u00ed se sv\u00fdm klientem sparingovat, aby mu pomohl zlep\u0161it hru. Ale tak\u00e9 slovo\u00a0<i>n\u00e1hradn\u00edk<\/i>\u00a0znamen\u00e1 n\u00e1hra\u017eka nebo n\u00e1hrada a \u00fast\u0159edn\u00edm principem t\u011bchto vztah\u016f je, \u017ee nakonec skon\u010d\u00ed \u2013 \u017ee n\u00e1hradn\u00ed partner bude nahrazen skute\u010dn\u00fdm.<\/p>\n<p>Zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee zde existuje n\u011bco jako hlava 22: jak dob\u0159e se u\u010den\u00ed placen\u00e9ho\u00a0<i>sexu\u00e1ln\u00edho senseie<\/i>\u00a0prom\u00edt\u00e1 do re\u00e1ln\u00fdch vztah\u016f? Ve chv\u00edli, kdy si najmete jednoho z t\u011bchto terapeut\u016f, aby v\u00e1s nau\u010dil, jak v\u00e9st norm\u00e1ln\u00ed sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed \u017eivot, nem\u00e1te u\u017e tak n\u011bjak z definice \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd? Kdy\u017e si najdete skute\u010dn\u00e9ho partnera, \u0159eknete mu o sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed terapii, kterou jste podstoupili, stejn\u011b jako byste mohli diskutovat o sv\u00e9 sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed historii \u2013 nebo si ji nech\u00e1te pro sebe, stejn\u011b jako byste mohli mluvit o slo\u017eitostech sv\u00e9 zdravotn\u00ed historie?<\/p>\n<p>Ot\u00e1zka, zda jsou n\u00e1hradn\u00ed partne\u0159i efektivn\u00ed, je v\u0161ak m\u00e9n\u011b zaj\u00edmav\u00e1 ne\u017e ot\u00e1zka, jak vznikli, jakou spole\u010denskou mezeru vypl\u0148uj\u00ed. Je z\u0159ejm\u00e9, \u017ee v\u017edy existoval trh s lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed byli ochotni vym\u011bnit sex za pen\u00edze \u2013 ale op\u011bt se nejedn\u00e1 o prostitutky. (Jak poznamen\u00e1v\u00e1 jeden z profilovan\u00fdch terapeut\u016f, sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed pracovnice v\u011bt\u0161inou nevy\u017eaduj\u00ed, abyste p\u0159edt\u00edm, ne\u017e se s v\u00e1mi vysp\u00ed, absolvovali n\u011bkolikam\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u00ed terapii.) Jejich p\u0159ita\u017elivost, jejich \u00fa\u010del mus\u00ed b\u00fdt v n\u011b\u010dem jin\u00e9m. Mo\u017en\u00e1 je to tohle: d\u011blaj\u00ed form\u00e1ln\u00ed a transak\u010dn\u00ed to, co je ze sv\u00e9 podstaty nep\u0159edv\u00eddateln\u00e9 a chaotick\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e1hradn\u00ed partner v\u00e1s nikdy nezastra\u0161\u00ed, nikdy v\u00e1s nezaslep\u00ed rozchodem ve stylu \u201eto ne ty, to j\u00e1\u201c; \u201esezen\u00ed,\u201c p\u00ed\u0161\u00ed\u00a0<i>New York Times<\/i>, \u201ese obvykle konaj\u00ed jednou t\u00fddn\u011b, v r\u00e1mci jedno- a\u017e dvouhodinov\u00fdch setk\u00e1n\u00ed, dokud se v\u0161ichni t\u0159i\u201c \u2013 tedy klient, doporu\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed terapeut a n\u00e1hradn\u00ed partner \u2013 \u201enedohodnou, \u017ee terapie je ukon\u010dena\u201c.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e1hradn\u00ed partne\u0159i se tak zdaj\u00ed b\u00fdt produktem \u0161irok\u00e9 kulturn\u00ed touhy uspo\u0159\u00e1dat ka\u017edou emocion\u00e1ln\u011b riskantn\u00ed snahu do r\u00e1mce zalo\u017een\u00e9ho na pravidlech, kter\u00e1 ji \u010din\u00ed bezpe\u010dnou \u2013 od rozhodov\u00e1n\u00ed konflikt\u016f d\u011bt\u00ed b\u011bhem jejich rodi\u010di organizovan\u00fdch her a\u017e po tabuizaci spont\u00e1nn\u00edho flirtu (\u201cNesouhlasil jsem s t\u00edm, aby m\u011b n\u011bkdo pozval na rande!\u201c). Nejsme je\u0161t\u011b tak daleko, abychom pova\u017eovali nespoutan\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 pro\u017eitky za odporn\u00e9 nebo se je sna\u017eili postavit mimo z\u00e1kon, ale zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee se objevuje konsenzus, \u017ee \u0161\u00e1tr\u00e1n\u00ed v sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed oblasti, a\u0165 u\u017e doslova, nebo obrazn\u011b, je nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>\u0158\u00edzen\u00e1, kontrolovateln\u00e1, koupen\u00e1 a zaplacen\u00e1 verze intimity, kterou nab\u00edzej\u00ed profesion\u00e1ln\u00ed mazl\u00ed\u010dci a n\u00e1hradn\u00ed partne\u0159i, je pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b jedn\u00edm z p\u0159\u00edklad\u016f zm\u00edrn\u011bn\u00ed tohoto nebezpe\u010d\u00ed. Dal\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edkladem m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt vnik\u00e1n\u00ed terapeutick\u00e9 mluvy do b\u011b\u017en\u00fdch vztah\u016f, kter\u00e1 z\u00e1rove\u0148 zast\u00edr\u00e1 a prohlubuje skute\u010dn\u00e9 konflikty, kter\u00e9 by p\u00e1r mohl m\u00edt. Sta\u010d\u00ed si proj\u00edt TikTok nebo Instagram a zjist\u00edme, \u017ee norm\u00e1ln\u00ed chozen\u00ed a vztahy jsou t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2023\/02\/11\/style\/therapy-speak-dating.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"external noopener\">patologizov\u00e1ny<\/a>\u00a0a \u017ee se v konverzaci o nich hojn\u011b objevuj\u00ed \u201e\u010derven\u00e9 vlajky\u201c, \u201espou\u0161t\u011b\u010de\u201c a \u201ehranice\u201c \u2013 ty se \u010dasto pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed k popisu v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se d\u0159\u00edve naz\u00fdvaly \u201epreference\u201c.<\/p>\n<p>V jednom z ned\u00e1vn\u00fdch pozoruhodn\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edklad\u016f byl herec Jonah Hill obvin\u011bn z \u201en\u00e1tlakov\u00e9 kontroly\u201c (pozn.: st\u00e1le v\u00edce terapeutick\u00e9 mluvy) pot\u00e9, co jeho b\u00fdval\u00e1 \u017eena zve\u0159ejnila n\u011bkolik let starou textovou zpr\u00e1vu, v n\u00ed\u017e jako jednu ze sv\u00fdch \u201ehranic\u201c popsal sv\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, aby nezve\u0159ej\u0148ovala fotky v bikin\u00e1ch na Instagramu. Na jednu stranu byl cel\u00fd incident jen kouskem nep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 slan\u00fdch drb\u016f o celebrit\u00e1ch, na druhou stranu v\u0161ak odhaluje mechanismy, jimi\u017e se sna\u017e\u00edme chr\u00e1nit p\u0159ed vlastn\u00ed lidskou nepo\u0159\u00e1dnost\u00ed. Mluvit v tomto kontextu o hranic\u00edch nazna\u010duje jakousi mor\u00e1ln\u00ed spravedlnost \u2013 takovou, jak\u00e1 je spojena s fr\u00e1z\u00ed \u201ed\u011blat pr\u00e1ci\u201c \u2013 i kdy\u017e se sna\u017e\u00edte vykon\u00e1vat nepat\u0159i\u010dnou kontrolu nad volbami druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka. Nazna\u010duje to tak\u00e9, \u017ee jde o konflikt s vysokou s\u00e1zkou, v n\u011bm\u017e je ohro\u017eena\u00a0<i>samotn\u00e1 integrita \u010dlov\u011bka<\/i>. P\u0159esto po\u0161kr\u00e1bejte povrch Hillov\u00fdch takzvan\u00fdch hranic a co najdete? Prost\u011b a jednodu\u0161e \u017e\u00e1rlivost.<\/p>\n<p>Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b nen\u00ed t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 p\u0159ij\u00edt na to, pro\u010d by n\u011bkdo rad\u011bji tento rozhovor formuloval jako rozhovor o hranic\u00edch ne\u017e jako rozhovor o \u017e\u00e1rlivosti. Hranice jsou osv\u00edcen\u00e9, povznesen\u00e9, terapeutick\u00e9. \u017d\u00e1rlivost je o\u0161kliv\u00e1, nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e1 a oby\u010dejn\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Stejn\u011b jako osam\u011blost.<\/p>\n<p>Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b tady se st\u0159et\u00e1vaj\u00ed sv\u011bty terapeutick\u00fdch \u0159e\u010d\u00ed a n\u00e1hradn\u00edch partner\u016f a profesion\u00e1ln\u00edch mazl\u00ed\u010dk\u016f: lid\u00e9 se necht\u011bj\u00ed c\u00edtit \u0161patn\u011b. Obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 se necht\u011bj\u00ed c\u00edtit \u0161patn\u011b sami se sebou. A usm\u011br\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed na\u0161ich pocit\u016f pon\u00ed\u017een\u00ed, osam\u011blosti nebo \u017e\u00e1rlivosti skrze jin\u00fd r\u00e1mec, a\u0165 u\u017e terapeutick\u00fd, nebo transak\u010dn\u00ed, n\u00e1m umo\u017e\u0148uje p\u0159edst\u00edrat, \u017ee jsou n\u011b\u010d\u00edm jin\u00fdm, ne\u017e \u010d\u00edm ve skute\u010dnosti jsou. Dr\u017eet je v klinick\u00e9 vzd\u00e1lenosti. Pro\u017e\u00edvat je jako ne\u0161kodnou kopii kopie kopie skute\u010dn\u00e9 v\u011bci.<\/p>\n<p>Je to pochopiteln\u00fd impuls, necht\u00edt se brodit v nepo\u0159\u00e1dku. A mo\u017en\u00e1 pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 lidi, pro ty, kte\u0159\u00ed by jinak intimitu v\u016fbec neza\u017eili, pro ty, kte\u0159\u00ed se p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 boj\u00ed ztr\u00e1ty kontroly, ne\u017e aby si n\u011bkdy dovolili b\u00fdt zraniteln\u00ed, jsou tyto vztahy bez rizika \u2013 nebo jejich iluze \u2013 tak dobr\u00e9, jak jen to jde. Ale je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 si nev\u0161imnout, \u017ee podobn\u011b jako VR sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed helmy ve filmu\u00a0<i>Demolition Man<\/i>, bezpe\u010dn\u00e1 a transak\u010dn\u00ed verze intimity m\u00e1 schopnost ud\u011blat v\u0161echno o n\u011bco m\u00e9n\u011b lidsk\u00e9 \u2013 v\u010detn\u011b n\u00e1s samotn\u00fdch.<\/p>\n<div class=\"podcarou\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/unherd.com\/2023\/08\/the-sex-coach-is-killing-intimacy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"external noopener\">The sex coach is killing intimacy<\/a> vy\u0161el 5.8.2023 na unherd.com. 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