{"id":20341,"date":"2022-12-28T00:59:35","date_gmt":"2022-12-27T23:59:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/?p=20341"},"modified":"2022-12-27T11:57:55","modified_gmt":"2022-12-27T10:57:55","slug":"petr-hannig-ztracena-laska","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/2022\/12\/28\/petr-hannig-ztracena-laska\/","title":{"rendered":"Petr Hannig: Ztracen\u00e1 l\u00e1ska"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"fb-root\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>Pro\u010d jsou n\u011bkdy mlad\u00ed, narozen\u00ed v devades\u00e1t\u00fdch letech \u010di pozd\u011bji, tak citov\u011b vypr\u00e1zdn\u011bn\u00ed? Proto\u017ee rodi\u010de v jejich nej\u00fatlej\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku nem\u011bli \u010das na sebe navz\u00e1jem. Nejlep\u0161\u00edm citovou v\u00fdchovou d\u00edt\u011bte je, kdy\u017e c\u00edt\u00ed l\u00e1sku ve vztahu sv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f. To znamen\u00e1 l\u00e1sku otce k matce a matky k otcovi. Tyto paprsky v\u0161eobj\u00edmaj\u00edc\u00ed rodinn\u00e9 pohody nejv\u00edce formuj\u00ed du\u0161i mal\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u00ed\u010dka.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dnes, v\u00a0druh\u00fd sv\u00e1tek v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed, na sv\u00e1tek prvn\u00edho k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9ho mu\u010dedn\u00edka, svat\u00e9ho \u0160t\u011bp\u00e1na, nechci ps\u00e1t prvopl\u00e1nov\u011b o politice. Svat\u00fd \u0160t\u011bp\u00e1n nezap\u0159el svou v\u00edru a hrd\u011b \u0161el na smrt. Uv\u011bdomme si, \u017ee je ma\u010farsk\u00fdm n\u00e1rodn\u00edm sv\u011btcem. A jakoby to bylo n\u00e1rodn\u00ed p\u0159edur\u010den\u00ed, p\u0159es v\u0161echny \u00fastrky ze strany Evropsk\u00e9 unie, a dokonce i za cenu toho, \u017ee nebude dost\u00e1vat dotace, se sou\u010dasn\u00e9 Ma\u010farsko odm\u00edt\u00e1 \u0159\u00eddit ideologi\u00ed pop\u00edraj\u00edc\u00ed v\u0161echna historick\u00e1 i p\u0159\u00edrodn\u00ed pravidla. Bylo by asi nemysliteln\u00e9, kdyby tam n\u011bjak\u00e1 kandid\u00e1tka na prezidentku prohl\u00e1sila, \u017ee si ob\u010dan\u00e9 budou muset zvykat na to, \u017ee existuje v\u00edce pohlav\u00ed ne\u017e dv\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>Zd\u00e1 se mi, \u017ee je v\u00a0posledn\u00ed dob\u011b \u010din\u011bn obrovsk\u00fd tlak na rozbit\u00ed tradi\u010dn\u00ed rodiny. Aby byla v\u00a0podstat\u011b vytla\u010dena z\u00a0rodinn\u00e9 atmosf\u00e9ry p\u0159irozen\u00e1 l\u00e1ska mezi rodi\u010di, kter\u00e1 nejenom\u017ee formuje du\u0161i d\u00edt\u011bte, ale kter\u00e1 vede p\u0159irozen\u011b i ke zdrav\u00e9mu sexu, z\u00a0kter\u00e9ho zase vznik\u00e1 nov\u00fd, po\u017eehnan\u00fd \u017eivot. Partne\u0159i, kte\u0159\u00ed sd\u00edlej\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, nemaj\u00ed dnes kv\u016fli probl\u00e9m\u016fm s\u00a0nar\u016fstaj\u00edc\u00edmi cenami energi\u00ed a v\u0161eho mo\u017en\u00e9ho, v\u016fbec pomy\u0161len\u00ed na n\u011bjak\u00fd, z\u00a0up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky vyv\u011braj\u00edc\u00ed sex.<\/p>\n<p>Nanejv\u00fd\u0161 se i toto velice intimn\u00ed sbl\u00ed\u017een\u00ed pl\u00e1nuje jako t\u0159eba n\u011bjak\u00fd m\u00edtink ve firm\u011b. Nap\u0159\u00edklad. V\u00a0\u00fater\u00fd od 21.30 do 22.30, mlad\u00fd mu\u017ei, \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 prodl\u00e9v\u00e1n\u00ed u po\u010d\u00edta\u010de, m\u00e1\u0161 vykon\u00e1vat svou man\u017eelskou povinnost. L\u00e1ska se ov\u0161em z\u00a0takov\u00e9ho vztahu vytr\u00e1c\u00ed, ale zapla\u0165p\u00e1nbu, \u017ee to funguje alespo\u0148 takto. N\u011bkde se vytratilo i to, a partne\u0159i \u017eij\u00ed vedle sebe naprosto bez fyzick\u00e9ho kontaktu. Takov\u00e9 man\u017eelstv\u00ed obvykle kon\u010d\u00ed a partne\u0159i si nach\u00e1zej\u00ed n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e doufaj\u00ed, \u017ee jinde najdou ten spr\u00e1vn\u00fd vztah. A pokud v\u00a0takov\u00e9m nestabiln\u00edm vztahu vyr\u016fstaj\u00ed d\u011bti, jak mohou potom v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b naj\u00edt ten spr\u00e1vn\u00fd recept na man\u017eelsk\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed. \u010clov\u011bk se \u0159\u00edd\u00ed vzory. A vzory sou\u010dasn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, jsou vypr\u00e1zdn\u011bn\u00e9 vztahy r\u016fzn\u00fdch celebrit, jejich\u017e partnersk\u00e9 vztahy se st\u0159\u00eddaj\u00ed \u010dast\u011bji ne\u017e ro\u010dn\u00ed obdob\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>A p\u0159ece \u017eivot v rodin\u011b, kde se rodi\u010de maj\u00ed r\u00e1di, je ten nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed a nejzdrav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed d\u00e1rek pro d\u00edt\u011b. Vzbuzuje toti\u017e pocit bezpe\u010d\u00ed. N\u011bkdy se ov\u0161em p\u00e9\u010de o d\u00edt\u011b bere jako to prvotn\u00ed a jedin\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 v partnersk\u00e9m vztahu. A v\u0161echno se to\u010d\u00ed kolem d\u00edt\u011bte a na vz\u00e1jemn\u00fd partnersk\u00fd vztah rodi\u010d\u016f nezb\u00fdv\u00e1 \u010das. Potom se ov\u0161em ze vztahu vytr\u00e1c\u00ed l\u00e1ska. A l\u00e1ska u mlad\u00fdch partner\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou z\u00e1rove\u0148 rodi\u010di, pot\u0159ebuje, tak jako kv\u011btinka, vl\u00e1hu a sluce. Pot\u0159ebuje sex. Man\u017eelsk\u00fd, partnersk\u00fd sex. Sex vyv\u011braj\u00edc\u00ed z l\u00e1sky. A kdy\u017e u\u017e nezb\u00fdv\u00e1 na sex z r\u016fzn\u00fdch d\u016fvod\u016f \u010das, nebo kdy\u017e nemoc jednoho z partner\u016f sex neumo\u017e\u0148uje, tak jsou d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 doteky. L\u00e1skypln\u00e9 pohlazen\u00ed je n\u011bkdy naprosto plnohodnotnou n\u00e1hra\u017ekou partnersk\u00e9ho sexu. A t\u00edm nemysl\u00edm erotick\u00e9 doteky, t\u00edm mysl\u00edm doteky vyv\u011braj\u00edc\u00ed z hlubok\u00e9 a up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky, co\u017e je ten nej\u00fa\u010dinn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed l\u00e9k na r\u016fzn\u00e9 stresy a probl\u00e9my ka\u017edodenn\u00edho \u017eivota.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00a0sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b je v\u0161ak velmi t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 naj\u00edt spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho partnera. Mnoho star\u0161\u00edch lid\u00ed \u017eije samo. Ale i na to existuje l\u00e9k. \u010clov\u011bk si nesm\u00ed ze sv\u00e9 samoty zoufat. Pokud nem\u00e1 partnera, tak m\u016f\u017ee naj\u00edt uspokojen\u00ed v\u00a0\u010detb\u011b a ve schopnosti ud\u011blat si ze sv\u00e9 samoty kladnou z\u00e1le\u017eitost. Jednou se ptali novin\u00e1\u0159i celo\u017eivotn\u00edho star\u00e9ho ml\u00e1dence Josefa Kemra, jestli mu nen\u00ed smutno, kdy\u017e je s\u00e1m, a on jim odpov\u011bd\u011bl:\u00a0<em>\u00bbJ\u00e1 nejsem s\u00e1m. J\u00e1 jsem s\u00e1m se sebou.\u00ab<\/em>\u00a0Tak tolik v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed, a\u017e na jeden odstavec nepolitick\u00e9 rozj\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed. A hledejme v\u0161ichni to, co se vytr\u00e1c\u00ed. L\u00e1sku v\u00a0tom prav\u00e9m slova smyslu.<\/p>\n<p>A k\u00a0rozj\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed pat\u0159\u00ed i hudba. Kdy\u017e mi bylo 21 let, tak jsem napsal pro Va\u0161ka Neck\u00e1\u0159e a Helenu Vondr\u00e1\u010dkovou v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed p\u00edse\u0148 Koledn\u00edci, kterou jsem s\u00a0nimi a se sv\u00fdm prvn\u00edm profesion\u00e1ln\u00edm orchestrem Past\u00fd\u0159i (past\u00fd\u0159 kr\u00e1\u010d\u00ed v\u017edy mimo st\u00e1do), kde hr\u00e1li pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00ed hv\u011bzdy, nap\u0159\u00edklad na baskytaru Karel V\u00e1gner, nato\u010dil v\u00a0r\u00e1diu v\u00a0roce 1967.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Koledn\u00edci, V\u00e1clav Neck\u00e1\u0159 a Helena Vondr\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e1, Past\u00fd\u0159i 1967\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/BfHdkkKrpL4?feature=oembed\" width=\"100%\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>A na z\u00e1v\u011br \u010dl\u00e1nku bych cht\u011bl p\u0159ehr\u00e1t slavnou v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed p\u00edse\u0148 v\u00a0proveden\u00ed Andrei Bocelliho.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Andrea Bocelli - Adeste Fideles\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/okyzEnO7g3c?feature=oembed\" width=\"100%\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tak v\u00e1m, moji p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed \u010dtete m\u00e1 rozj\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed nad r\u016fzn\u00fdmi aspekty \u017eivota a politiky, p\u0159eji kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 pro\u017eit\u00ed zbytku v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed doby a v\u0161e nejlep\u0161\u00ed v nov\u00e9m roce.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Petr Hannig, p\u0159edseda politick\u00e9 strany Rozumn\u00ed a b\u00fdval\u00fd prezidentsk\u00fd kandid\u00e1t<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-19187 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-PRO-300x36.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"144\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-PRO-300x36.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/1-PRO.jpg 699w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pro\u010d jsou n\u011bkdy mlad\u00ed, narozen\u00ed v devades\u00e1t\u00fdch letech \u010di pozd\u011bji, tak citov\u011b vypr\u00e1zdn\u011bn\u00ed? Proto\u017ee rodi\u010de&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":12094,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[29,479,205],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20341"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20341"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20341\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12094"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20341"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20341"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.infokuryr.cz\/n\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20341"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}